In the years before AIG and the housing market crash, I remember the kinds of housing that were in the market and that people were building. Yes, size DID matter then. We were house hunting in 2003 and really indulged by looking at wonderfully big houses, with soaring ceilings, oversized windows, almost intimidating foyers and double-sized kitchen i
slands. What made it even more wonderfully exciting was the endless financing possibilities that made these homes very affordable. I must say that the allure of SIZE really was quite hard for us to resist. So, our small family moved into a home where EACH person had approximately 1,100 sq. ft. to live and play (not to mention an additional 1,200 sq. ft. of basement). The first few months were exciting and really quite a dream. Who would not want a big house like that?Looking back, I remember the nights when our daughter slept over at her friend's and it would just be me and my husband at home. We could hear our plates and conversation echo through the empty spaces of our home. Forget any random conversation if any one of you were in different parts of the house because there was no way you can talk to each other. I even got used to calling my husband's cellphone when he worked in the office. I had an extra large walk-in closet and the this gave me an excuse to "stock-up". Not to mention my walk-in pantry that made me spend hundreds of dollars at Costco each time.
In 2008, when we decided to move, we were thinking about what our next home should be and we decided that while our home was gorgeous, it simply did not suit our family and the way we wanted to live. We did not want to waste fossil fuel to heat empty spaces. We did not want to throw away all those food as they expired in our pantry (and while children all over the world were starving). And, the hardest part, is that I did not need all those shoes and clothes that I only wore once. Finally, we wanted to be embraced by space that is warm and welcoming.
We currently live in an average sized home in Guymon built way before 1960. A smaller home has allowed us to be closer to each other. We have changed our lifestyle to be more mindful of our space and our resources. I guess in the dawn of the new American economy, it is important for us to make size matter.


